***Sigh*** Plunging in where I will probably regret and be monitored, but I have to say this. This is the "Sanctuary for Spiritual Support". Every time two of these posters post in the same forum, it never feels like a sanctuary...it feels like sparks could fly at any moment. Obviously there is some history here, but it scares me and makes me uncomfortable. I enjoy hearing what everyone has to say, I love the topic of kindness, but where is the support? Where is the sanctuary? Honest to God, I cry when I read threads that have posts by two of the contributers here because there is such tension underlying it. "So don't read them" would be the obvious answer, but I don't know until I've already read. Anyway, I just would like to ask if please, at least in this forum, can we try to keep the challenges and bitterness and venom out? I really don't want to take any pm's on this, so please honor that. Thank you all for the thought provoking ideas and such brought forth.