Hey Digdug,

Yes definately, my mates DO confide in me and i normally am relatively neutral in all relatioships. My mate and i were talking and although she talks to a lot of people in work. I speak more to them than she does. She was commenting on one of the girls nothing bad or anything. She said i know i cant speak badly about certain people as you tend to like EVERYONE in work heehee!!! I said well you can ask my opinion. It may not be what your looking for. Unless someone has hurt me in any sense or form i will be their friend.

Ah the joys of a marrige. I am single and have been all my life. My relationships are all purely on friendship and i think with my best mate its been a great relationship and i trust her 100% so far she hasn't told my secrets so i think i am safe there.