I've only been married since Nov of '07 but we've been together for almost 5. We're so different. We both have our own issues but we come at them from completely different directions. He doesn't understand my ptsd or depression. We can't get what we need from each other but we do still love each other. I did finally tell him though that I need to be on my own. I never really developed my own personality, I just mirror others or try to become what I think they want or need. On one hand I feel excited about the prospect of being alone and finding out who I am and doing things my way. On the other I feel so horrible because I do love him and I don't want to hurt him. I don't want him to disappear from my life. Anyone else out there like this?