Thanks for this notz! And no, it is not screwed up to be unsure of what your are putting out there. Sometimes these things are unexplainable...
I am glad I didn't offend.
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Originally Posted by notz
Searchingmysoul,
No, no, no! you have not offended me in the least! You have helped to open my eyes. I apologize for not saying it clearly. I didn't want to say too much then because I was unsure of what I was saying. (I hope that's not too screwed up  )
Your words struck a chord with me. I was finally able to put a "description" to that voice because of your words. I now realize when that verbally abusive adult female fragment is the one I am listening to, that's when I'm allowing me to abuse me. That's why I said "This is every bit as harmful as any physical injury, is it not?" I was asking the question out loud - looking to validate.
You helped me!
notz
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