Yeah they can't - just as well really.
My psychologist told me that - I can trust her, not my CPN though.

I told her I was thinking about it - so next time I saw her she came with another nurse - that freaks me out - maybe next time just 1 of them, since it is my house.

Yeah that's what I thought - it seemed ok to tell her at the time - since we went out for as walk - now everyone wants to talk about it and it doesn't seem like such a good idea now.