Yes, that was exactly what I was saying, in spite of themselves they embraced our holiday. Can you think of another holiday that came from a foreign culture that the whole country celebrates? I cannot.

My immediate family left the Catholic church for the Lutheran church so I do not believe that the rituals involved holds a connection for mental illness.

As I said, my family has its faults and a great deal of them struggle with alcohol, but I have to say family comes first. We stick together no matter what.

I understand sky dancer's point as well. My father was a violent drunk as are several of my uncles on my mother's side. My father did get help and defeated the demon alcohol and because of that he will always be my hero. I choose not to tempt fate and avoid it. My brother unfortunately drinks entirely too much.

I think every culture has it's good points and bad.