Well, I've had more than my fair share of *regrets* of asking for support or even just hugs. I plan to sit on my hands a lot because I don't plan on ever posting about my troubles ever again. That makes it much harder for me cuz it feels like my insides are screaming so loud that I can't stand it. Without *loving* support, I end up shutting down completely, like I have for the last few days, barely even getting out of bed and totally unable to function. I will however continue to offer my support with kindness to everybody else here that *wants* it, when I am able. Thanks Tomi for raising this issue, I know sadly I'm not the only one who feels this way.