I'm sorry that happened to you - it has happened to me many times.. sigh.....

what i thought then :-

First thing was that I should probably crawl back under the rock I came out from under! - how come I'm still healing when others are over it (but are they?)- How dumb I am - my T is wasting her time because I cant learn anthing., I should be over this, I am weak and pathetic to still be re-living this, I am worthless no wonder no-one loves me or cares for me - I dont' deserve to get better......

What I think now or try to

This is there problem not mine, it takes as long as it takes, we are all individuals and we all heal at different rates, feel different things, need different things, have past issues that affect our healing differently, they are going through their stuff and I am going through mine and I try not to make their stuff mine and say - ok I was talking to the wrong person about that - i will know better next time

jmo - take care P7