Hey there,

I'm sorry to hear that you're having to work so hard! I can definitely see how you are feeling taken advantage of. This might be cheesy, and maybe something I'm suggesting because I'm still in the college/roommate phase, but often when there's an imbalance in cleaning it's really good to set out a checklist of chores for the week and assign people to do each one. If you have 4 adults there, this can greatly cut down on individual work. Then when you notice something messy, you'll have one person to talk to about it without seeming like you're trying to make them clean the whole house!

And again, I'm sorry to hear that you having so much labour! Having a baby I'm sure is work enough.