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Old Mar 21, 2009, 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted by shezbut View Post
(((reach)))

I know how challenging it can be to feel as though you are room mates, rather than married, please remember that it is very normal for relationships to wax and wane throughout our lives. What keeps it together is our dedication that we vowed til death do we part.

I would recommend trying everything before separation and divorce. Go into counseling, and lay those cards out onto the table honestly about how lonely and frustrated you feel. Work together to resolve the problem/s if at all possible.

Sometimes, separation and divorce are a necessity. It is a huge stress, from many different areas of our lives - especially when children are involved. The better terms you are on with one another, the easier it is for your child/ren.

Hope that I haven't confused you...I seem to be all over the place! LOL I just want you to really think about it. It isn't easy ~ for anyone!

Shez
Is that really normal?

I feel my time with things I love to do and I enjoy being with my friends but I wish I could share that joy with him sometimes.

No, I am not confused and appreciate your input and thanks.