All I can say is I'm moving into my own place this week and I've never felt freer or better. Like a load has been lifted. He can't/won't/is afraid to change. We can't give each other what the other needs and it just wasn't fair to us both. Since this came up last week we've never gotten along so well or talked about things so much. We had a serious lack of communication, it was hard for both of us. I'm am truly excited to be on my own for the first time and learn how to be my own person. Like the movie The Runaway Bride, I'll find out what kind of eggs I like, not just what my significant other likes :-)