Obviously this will be different for every person, but I think it might be helpful to start a list of schools (colleges or private schools, mostly, since public schools from high school down can be EXTREMELY variable) that offer a range of services for students with psychological issues or learning disabilities.
Please post the name of the school, as well as the city and state if you feel so inclined (and country, if it's not obvious), and a brief sentence or two describing why their program is good.
Thanks! Hopefully this will become a useful resource.
~muse