Does it mean that you value their perspective on how to address a problem and that you will try on of their suggestion even if you really don't think it will work? Then, yes I am dependent.

Does it mean that you will try to believe them when they say you are NOT something that you swear you are? Then, I am really trying to be dependent.

Does it mean that you get upset when there is a miscommunication and then take what in your mind seems like drastic measures to try and fix the connection? Then, I am dependent.

Does it mean that you go to therapy with the expectation that your T will at some point give you exactly what you need and you'll be fixed? Then, I am not dependent