Mellors, I have been stalked twice. (It must be my charming personality and good looks. ) I had to call the police. They told me to document each time the man called or came to my home. I had to write down the date, time, what he was wearing and also put down the weather, like temp high, low and "cloudy" or "rainy".

If you have voice mail, be sure to save her messages. You might also want to tell her you have a steady gf or financee. In cases like that, a small lie is permissable.

The next time the man came to the door or called me, I told him I had a steady bf and was documenting his stalking and was going to have him arrested. It stopped.

If you need some more info, pm me or find me in chat.

January