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Originally Posted by sunnye
When I fear conflict, I will avoid the situation, meaning missing appointments, scheduled events, work, etc. It is always interpreted as irresponsibility and/or lack of consideration. However, everytime I avoid a situation, it tears me up inside. I have burned a lot of bridges because of my AP.
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I do the absolute same thing
Its so hard isnt it! I always cancel plans last min, if im really in a mood ill call out of work, i have not shown up to volunteer things that i sign up for just because i dont want conflicts or i get nervous to talk to people. I also have burned MANY bridges and no one seems to understand i dont do because i dont care. you my dear are not alone.
