friends here at PC...

nightbird was the first person who sent me a message here when I joined PC. i don't think we've ever communicated beyond that, but she holds a special place in my heart. i was new, and she took the time to send me a lovely picture, and it lifted my spirits.

some of my friends on PC i will message every week or so. some of my other friends are just names on a list - but i do go through that list often and check up on them. not necessarily by making contact, but by reading some of their threads and responding there.

some of my friends - they are people i have messaged in crisis. sometimes to vent and ask for advice, sometimes just because i need someone close to me, someone i know will read my message, even if they don't respond. sometimes i get a hug, and that is always very welcome .

i like having the friends list here. i know it is a different sort of friendship than that in real life. but it makes me feel a part of the community more.