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Originally Posted by curley
I heard Dr Phil tell someone something one day and I try to use it. If you love someone and everything else is good, isnt it better to ignore the things that "in the scheme of things" are not so important. I lived with a slob too, sorry to say I could not always ignore it! But that would be my advise if you can do it! Good luck
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Yes... that's true. Other than his messiness, he's easily the nicest man I've ever dated. I'm not always easy to deal with as I have Asperger's syndrome. He is patient and understanding and always instinctively knows just what to say to bring me up when I'm feeling down.
It's hard for me because I've always been a neat person. Plus I have OCD as well as AS! So learning to ignore this will be a bit of a challenge.
Thanks for your advice.
