Hi Sarlite,

i'm sorry your loosing it .

if your re read all my posts to you seeing me as concerned carring and trying my upmost to be helpful posting in the wee hours of the night doing a google search to help talk to you because my wrtting is bad.

pointing you in the direction of recovery not just comiserating.

you then may see things I wrote as not accusatory and therefore no need to get steeamed.

just like your friend may have thought your hair was combed nicely or you had a glint in your eye or you looked a bit sad as the reason they said "you look different ' but just couldn't put words to it or was shy but felt the need to sat something as un clear as it may have been.

and ...NOT that your over eating and must loose weight .
but hey

I'm right there with you star .

been there done that and still do...

I hope that helps.

Patricia