just wanting to sleep and a peaceful one at can change the way we see things. Nobody is perfect in every way but we do the best we can with what we have. And sometimes what we have is perfect for us. not everyone can have an organized life to a tee . the only thing we can give is our love freely to our children that's the one thing they cant hold over us - the love we can give to our own child. it might not be perfect but it is ours to give
Things have a way of working themselves out in the end.

It is always amazing who you find when you are down that is there with you ready to help
I hope that was of help

to my friend