I consider my mother cold and distant because she calls me *****, weakling, tells me no guy would ever like me, tells me I will never amount to anything, took all my disability money away as my payee, refuses to talk about emotions, says that's my doctor's job, when I told her these things, she still did not discuss any of them. If I talk about how I am an eccentric person, she starts to scream. If I hold down a job, it is because no one was watching me closely, according to her. If a guy talks to me, it is because I was the only one there.