Hi cfh1167.....

I'm not a big fan of steriotypes but sometimes you just can't avoid the Truth....

You know the one about us guys and our resistence to ask for directions...You know how we will always tell you that we know where we're going and one more turn and we'll be right back on track...

Meanwhile we just keep getting more lost.

Yep..I'm one of those guys...stubborn to the bone...

Well,,to answer your question from above...yep,,that's all there is to it...talk to each other...give gentle loving direction...There is nothing embarrassing in trying to make your partner happy and in being pleased in return...

Communication in all things leads to greater satisfaction in those same things...In this particular case I enjoy taking direction....

Happy Talking.....

Lenny