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Thank you all so much for all your words of encouragement to me regarding this situation...................my own issues allowed what this person said to me to really hit a point that l am so scared of happening. I agree that yes they dont walk my shoes or know the whole story but just because they dony doesnt give them the right to express there opinion as they did. What is so amazing is this person is supposed to be a friend of ours................... but then with friends like that l certainly dont need any enemies. My son needs help, unfortunately myself or my husband are not in a place to give him the help that he needs. We have spent the last few weeks drawing, talking, explaining trying to find an openoing point for him to enable him to be able to talk to us about his fears. The problem we have if we mention the word dying he completely shuts down and falls apart , begging myself and my husband to not let him die, he hold onto our legs and hugs us so tight and his whole little body is shaking from head to toe.......................it's heartbreaking to see him in so much distress and at the same time be unable to help him express it. We tried to just carry on talking even though he was sobbing the result hysteria. Now my mental health team are say that he needs an urgent referral to the childrens services to aleviate his psychological sufferring.

We are trying.......................we try each day, we sit and hold him when hes scared and cant sleep, we encourage him to eat his food which we have never had to do but most of all we just love him. we cant protect or take this away for him and that is so hard

I'm sorry just had to get all this out......................l feel such a failure and this time that hurts really really bad

Sassy