((((((((((((( Kathie )))))))))))))))))
I'm so sorry... I have no answer to your question because I haven't lost a child, but I just really feel badly that you had to go through that...you've been through so much.
I really feel badly to hear this

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Ray was just asking asking about you last night cuz we haven't seen you and were wondering if you were ok.
Maybe hopefully you can find some support or better answers from some ppl who have been in those shoes tho.
I just wanted to know you're on my mind and how sorry I am for you.
*hugs Kathie*
Please take care and pm me anytime
Eva