I only went back to january to see if anyone posted about ppl who spend too much. I didn't find anything.

Can someone answer a question for me please?

I understand a little about addiction, but that isn't my issue. I'm wondering if I'm helping someone close to continue bad behavior with what a friend of mine thinks is a shopping addiction. She has been sober for about 8 yrs and sees things I don't. I know I can't change someone's behavior, she has reinforced that with me. but I'm not sure what to do.