Hi starlite!
Im terribly sorry to hear about your loss..it must've been devastating..i am truly sorry..and im here to remind you that a lot of people are so ignorant about the hidden reason why we eat uncontrolably: its that void and sense of empyness that one experiences, and the anxiety sets in and : there you go..eat, and eat, and eat, until your stomach hurts..or not eat anything at all, like some sort of punishment..the same vicious, sick cycle..
What im trying to say is: i understand..