i've only been with one. i was CSA, though, so i think maybe my number would be different if i wasn't so scared of it.

i also dread the 'exes' talk, because my only partner before was a girl, and most guys only like that stuff if they are involved, not when they realise it was a long term (5 year) relationship.

so even though ive only had one sexual partner, it was the wrong type of partner to have, apparently.