(((((MUE))))) When my H moved his stuff out and left the last time, we all cried. Even though that was what we wanted. It is very sad for a marriage to end. After the way your H behaved last night, though, I feel it is best for you to be apart right now, at the very least until he can somehow get his behavior under control.

Give yourself some time and space to feel all this. There's no rush, is there? The important thing is that at least for now he is gone.