ok, so my wife and I get into this heated argument about my "living" at work and no balance in my life

since taking over my fathers business back in 1997, I have had a total of less than 15 days vacation in that time period (12 years)

2 days on a college field trip to Harlan County KY... yee haw!

3 days on a college field trip to D.C.....

1 or 2 days missed for funerals for uncles and cousins

1 day missed due to 23" snow...couldnt find my truck to go to work

and 4 days worked in around holiday weekends to make 2 trips to Panama City Beach

maybe 1 sick day....

she says it fuels my overall mental health and why im so irritable

any thoughts?