i wish we could choose our family members.....i'd take the osbournes.......but since we can't..we'll help you work through this with yours...okay? first, do not let the brother push your buttons. don't give him your power!!! don't!!! he wouldn't know how to use it!!
now, for Mom.....getting her to take care of herself is going to be a big struggle. but, as i've come to know and love you as a friend, i've realized that you're a very determined woman and you have a good head on your shoulders. work her into this "caring" attitude, a little at a time...let he think that she thought of it. that might work.....or you could use the emotional approach...tell her how hard it would be for you to lose her.......you'll know best what to do and how to approach her........and remember, i'm just a PM away. it's my early night and i'm going to bathe now and eat....i'll be back on in awhile.....xoxo pat
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