Hi Richard,

Thanks so much for sharing your insight on this. That 1950's-60's study sounds interesting. Makes me feel more " normal " for breaking under my own pressure-- considered myself- just weaker than most.

That self-deprecating thinking is my biggest obstacle- it seems. Really have to work on it. Also being my true self..
Like you wrote---- " I learned to tell the truth about what was going on in my life, and I learned to wear this world as a loose fitting garment, warts and all."
That's so great- I hope to be able to do that someday.

Congratulations on being in AA. I wish you the best.
Not sure I really need to join something along those lines..... I do appreciate you mentioning it though. I have heard good things happen with those groups.

Hey, thanks again for your thoughtful words, your understanding and support.... much appreciated!!

Mandy