What is happening at work? I wrote an example in my first post but there have been other incidents just like that. A little over a year ago, I was working on my computer while one of my co-workers was sitting next to me, he memorized my email address and started writing obscene messages and sending me images of naked people making out and such. I warned him to stop at least three times but his behavior didn't change until I actually had to go to the office and bring the matter up with one of my supervisors. He didn't bother me after that.

I'm not comfortable with men approaching me in such a vulgar way and it upsets me because I maybe I'm doing something to instigate this type of reaction and I'm not even aware of it.. I don't know.

Your perspective and comments will be greatly appreciated. Thanks guys!