Many of the side effects go away, if the pdoc is titrating properly, many do not get side effects, if so so very mild.
Did the pdoc start you with Lithobid or Eskalith? My pdoc told me Lithobid has less side effects, due to the way it is released in the body. Now my bro takes Eskalith, and use to get slight tremors, that went away.
He only gained weight in the begining, then after being on it, lost it.
I didn't gain any weight from it, but Depakote, man, 10lbs, in a week and a half.

Lots of luck with whatever has been decided.

DE