I'm sorry that you've had a terrible experience, but please don't blame it on the asperger's and maybe research a little on the disorder and then you'll understand why your relationship was the way it was. I have a son who is 11 years with Aspergers and I know socialization and communication are very difficult for them and can be very frustrating for them and I'm sure it's not easy for any with Aspergers to ben in relationships. I wish you well and that you will recover from this difficult relationship. Good luck!