((((peaches)))))

I read every single word earlier today---just didnt have time to respond til now.

I am sorry your friend treated you the way she did. You opened yourself up and allowed yourself to be vulnerable with someone and she kinda threw it in your face and left you hanging and made you regret it now. But now because of this you'd probably be less likely to confide in someone else other than your T, esp regarding your husband and marriage. Though I hope that this does not completely discourage you from confiding in someone else outside of T....though I am sure it will take some time to heal from this.

As far as getting your writings back, I really think you should pursue this. She has absolutely no right to keep them. They are not her property. I really hope you can find a way to get them all back.

Take care and keep us posted on how you are doing.