Hi, I'm 37 years old and I'm on disability for bipolar. I've been on it for about 3 years. I definately think having a part time job in the mean time would be a bad idea. You're supposed to prove to them that you cannot work, and there you are, working. I am married also. Do you have a lawyer to help you? I had one from the very beginning. Hang in there. I was denied three times before I finally got approved. Good Luck.