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Old Mar 30, 2009, 09:46 PM
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((((( PEACHES ))))))

I want you to know that I, too, read every single word...and I am so sorry you've endured such pain.

I have a lot of similarities with your experience - confiding in close friends, badmouthing my husband to my close friends, and then them getting upset at the idea that I might try to work things out with my husband.

I think it's quite sad how your situation unfolded - leaving such a scar on your emotional wellbeing.

I also believe that you are giving her wayyy too much power over you. I hope you can work through this in therapy so you can face her head-on someday.

(( HUGS ))

Ria
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