Sophia - I'm sorry you had such a bad experience.
Your question "is this normal behavior?" was valid. (No, it isn't... not for someone with AS and not for "neurotypical", or non-autistic, people either.) I think your statement about "not liking
them very much" might have been what caused some responses to be a little bit testy.
We are all different, and like silentandscared said, we all have our own personalities - AS aside - that play a role in our behavior.
Take care,
VB