((peaches)).

do go to the religious thingy coming up in 2 weeks. just because she might be there, isn't a reason for you not to go. you know - like, who gave her the authority to continue on with her life as normal, where you have to drop everything to avoid things *you* want to do?

if she is that uncomfortable with you being around, then let her leave. you have a right to socialise with your new congregation as well, yknow?

so i do hope that internalising your T will help in going to your service. i think it would be a good first step of taking some of the power back .