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Originally Posted by SophiaG
a lot of people seem angry at me for posting this.
Honestly, if I actually was 100% confident with what i believed to be true of people with aspergers I would never have posted this.
And in fact I only posted this to find the truth and to see if my predjudices were valid or not. Obviously some of my predjudices are wrong.
And I didnt mean Aspies in a derogatory way. Its just a word i've heard to describe someone with aspergers. o_o. If i thought it was like the N word for people with Aspergers, i wouldnt have used it.
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I dont think that its wrong to ask any questions especially if we have had a bad experience but what l do feel is that there is a way to ask questions you yes could still have said about all the experiences that YOU have suffered but when we group everyone into one band and then we judge others to be the same the reality it hurts people. People are indiviuals and you can take 100 people all with the same diagnosis and what you would see is hundreds of different manifestations of an ilness/condition.
I truely am sorry for the things that you experienced but the fault of that lies with this man and not the others who may share a diagnosis.....you can take any examle of grouping all into one group and what you find is they are not all the same.................but unique, different and possessing qualities 'normal' for each of these people depending on experience, and personality too. I hope you find the answers that you are seeking and in sorry that you think we are angry with our replies..................not angry just being human and seeing it from another perspective
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