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Old Mar 31, 2009, 09:09 AM
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Life stinks at times, for sure, my friend!

Pom, I am so sorry that your daughter has emotionally moved away from you. It's hard enough when you lose a child from an accident or illness, but I believe it's a different and very deep grief to be going through this type of loss.

I have no words of wisdom to offer you, and I'm so sorry for not being able to comfort you.
My respect for your determination to find some measure of peace is solid...

My son went through a spell of having no contact with me nor would he allow me to see the grandkids. Not even pictures.
I'll never know what made him gradually allow me back into his life...
At one point, I wrote him, was surprised he didn't return it, and told him it hurt but I would honor his decision. I did ask that he not involve my SO/their grandfather as he was not part of our problems.
He welcomed him very slowly by short visits only.

It's not the same as what you are going through, Pom. I wanted to share that I was walking through the same hell for a very long time.

Peace, my friend, peace
Cap
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Thanks for this!
shezbut