Hi Nixtribe - can you sit down with your daughter and have a chat about this?
I know your situation is stressful - it must be drivng you crazy! it would me - am I hope you manage to move out soon
and being housebound too geez!
I hope the dr says you can weight bear then maybe you can go out and get some fresh air!
Is there somthng you can do for you that makes you calmer? paint, draw, write, watch a dvd, read a book - anything to lower your stress levels?
take care
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Its not how many times you fall down that counts 
its how many times you get back up!
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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
by Patrick Overton, author and poet