I know what you mean, hope my reply didn't offend anyone, I have even read pasts posts and PM's over and over and just could not make them out, so I get what you mean.
On the other hand in many writing courses our professor would stress, "write the idea, the thought(s), down as they flow, or you'll lose them before you know it, and as we get older, ha!ha! many of us need to do that asap, unfortunately in the process we may forget to check the spelling/mispellings, if a member/visitor comes here all distraught I doubt if they are concentrating on their spelling at that moment, but just looking for support. I guess it is a matter of just trying to work with each other, under certain and different circumstances, just my take on this, and please, there is no offense meant in this reply.

Take care,
"darkeyes"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON