I think you have gotten some great responses ! I had 3 miscarriages, one at 6 months (on Father's Day). Even tho the last one was 29 years ago, I still think about my son I never saw. I am so glad you got to hold your baby ! Back in the days when I went thru it, they did not consider the Mother's need to do that.

Saying "time heals all wounds" sounds meaningless at this time for you I am sure, however, with time, we do heal. Grieve , in whatever way you need too. Expect the ups and downs of hormones as well as emotions , accept them for what they are. Try not to let them overwhelm you.

Your work at the shelter sounds like it could be very rewarding !!! Helping women understand they do not have to put up with being abused ! I am sure that you will touch more than one person there, and perhaps that is part of the plan God has for you.

I am sorry for your loss !