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But she wouldn't bring it up to work on it until I was ready. It took 8 yrs almost to be ready to deal with it. But learning about it, and how to cope with it etc made me feel like a brand new person.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> sundance what a wonderful insight to share with those in this forum!! Thank you.

It isn't easy to accept not being ready until one is ready to face some things. PTSD is like that for many. It is most definitely there but our inner resources and abilities aren't yet ready to process and handle the battles involved in managing PTSD.

Glad you have support and have made use of it over time. Good job!