He never drinks like that anymore. Recently when he did he was upset (he's in real estate, need I say more?) but otherwise he doesn't like drinking and hasn't downed a bottle since around the cheating time when I think back. Even when I told him to just chill and have a few beers he never likes to drink and never wants to.....maybe it scares him because of what he's done?

It seems like I could get over the experience but my friends and family aren't really the type to turn to in these situations so it's nice to find more unbiased people.