Cam,
Like I said when we spoke after my post, forget about this post, you have and have had your mind on so much and so many places. I remember I was the first person to answer your post almost 3 years ago now, and I can imagine the hell you and your family are still going through. We spoke earlier today, I know it was lengthy, but I hope it helped a little.
Meanwhile take care of yourself, we'll be waiting here for you with "open arms"
"darkeyes"

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON