To be honest i wouldnt say that i think its weird , but i am definately ashamed that i do it . I know this sounds wrong , but you asked what we thought so i am telling you. I guess i have always had the idea that masturbation was a boy thing , and it was ok that boys did it , but not females. Now i am a 41 yr old woman , and i do masturbate , but feel pretty guilty about it . About 2 or so weeks ago i saw my therapist and for some reason actually talked a little about the fact that i do it , well really just read a letter that i had written where it was mentioned . And to be honest since then i have not mentioned it again and hope that the T either missed what i said , or just doesnt want to talk about it further. I guess though if it becomes an issue that i want to deal with , i will try , but its very uncomfortable for me . Funny thing though seeing this post, i said to myself ... well its ok that women do it too , just not me .