Hmm... Well, in high school, I always had a little tinge of a crush on my now current boyfriend (the first time I saw him, I thought to myself "I could have a crush on him..."). We hardly ever spoke until the end of senior year. Then we started flirting a smidge. And he'd just randomly hold my hand when we were out sitting in my back yard around a fire.. Then we both went to college far away from home/each other but when we came home over Thanksgiving break we were just hanging out and we kissed. And after that he said "Wanna be official?" It was kind of a weird (and if you ask me kind of lame, lol) beginning to our relationship...

But then the other day, I was texting one of my friends (who know lives on the other side of the country) and without prompting (we were joking around about hating each other), he was like "You were my super secret crush." So, yeah, he basically confessed his feelings for me without ever going on a date or ever talking to me about being more than friends...

Overall, I guess what I'm trying to say is I've sorta had both of those scenarios happen... Sorta.... I guess, is that what youre asking? It's not like I've had a "Over Her Dead Body" (you know.. where the kid is gay for 5 years and then randomly kisses her without ever telling her otherwise)...

But.. anyways, I"m rambling. Sooo, I'm gunna end this...

Bye!
Ro