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Originally Posted by sunshineinthecity
I have a permanent order against someone for several years
Recently a counselor keeps telling me to sue abuser
I don't think so-he has connections,old with terminal cancer
I don't want to subject myself to his lawyer anymore
He has been arrested for it and has crimnal history
I cannot afford it- I am unemployed
WIth his illness and the fact that I have not recently called police
I cannot understand why the counselor persisits
It is causing me to stay up
Please tell me what you think
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The reasons you gave for not suing your abuser make sense to me. I wouldn't sue either if I was in your shoes.
I do think you should ask your therapist why they feel that you should sue your abuser. If their reasons arn't good enough for you then maybe you should consider another therapist.