a good friend went thru some horrific stuff last yr this month.
we were in nearly 24/7 contact by phone. when the bad stuff happened
it was like i was right there. one of her insiders gave me all the specific details of what was happening and what had happpened
my friend also would talk to be right afterwards---bad things were happening to her every day several times a day.
i finally got her to my place--clear across the country---and saw the
results of what had happened to her on her body.
i nursed her and sat with her while she cried and told me things.

i put it all away.
today she reminded me it is the anniverary of the worst things that happened to her. the most unimaginable things.
i was on the phone with her

now i'm having a really rough time.